Allen Jakovich, like Jesse Hogan, lost his father to cancer as a young man chasing his football dream outside his home state of Western Australia.
"I feel for young Jesse. I hope he runs out there and remembers his old man every time he does, and that will help," Jakovich said.
"It's sort of cathartic. (My coping mechanism) was wearing a black armband just randomly sometimes. I had to fib about it and say an old mate in Darwin or South Australia (had died), but it wasn't – it was for my dad.
"That helped me get through that. I just hope Jesse has got a lot of support there, even if he's got to jump on the plane every now and then … I found that helped, too.
"When I could, I'd get back to Perth and surprise mum and sometimes not tell her and just rock in through the door and spend the weekend. I think your family is the best thing you need at times like that, that's the most important."